Disproved your own point. What if Jeff Davis had been aborted?

The decision to have an abortion is a very personal and complicated choice. CHOICES, like everything in your life, have consequences. And like all decisions anyone makes in life, you live with the consequences and move on. You should not be concerned or judging about another persons choices or consequences, you should deal with your own life.

Then it is probably a good thing, that as a MAN you will NEVER be faced with making this very personal decision. And how lovely of YOU to decide who should have lived and died. Try thinking instead of all the children who ARE born to parents who don't want or abuse them. If you want to lament something, cry for the living, breathing children who have never been hugged, kissed or touched in a gentle manner. Sob for the child born to the drug addicted mother who will never know a normal life due to birth defects. Weep for the child whose only good meal of the day is the one they get at school because there are too many kids in their house for their parents to feed - despite working two jobs each. Grieve for the infant who was born into a world where some people STOP caring the minute they draw breath the minute they become just another statistic. And before you try to judge those women who have made this choice, get up, get out and help THESE kids. Once ALL of those problems are solved - and all the other cruelties and hardships are eliminated - only then should we have to endure yet another sermon about this subject.

My mother was a big believer in choice, and she had 5 kids because she wanted them. I know of another woman who has 6 kids, all in foster care because she didn't want or care for any of them; forced births are setups for tragedy beyond your understanding. Unfortunately, mothering is a complex and demanding process that a uterus alone does not equip you for. Unwanted children, much more often than wanted children, become handicapped or severely disadvantaged adults. Unwanted children are more often neglected, abused, or otherwise mistreated, and you can say all you want about "overcoming adversity", you have to have something to build on to go anywhere in life...and if you don't get that foundation starting as a baby and going on for a number of solid years you ain't likely to get it. Before you start whining about adoption, just know some people who can't parent also can't bring themselves to give up their kids at birth; they have to try to raise them, at least. After they've proven they're really not adequate parents, it's a little late.

I find it hilarious when any man tries to weigh in on abortion. Why should YOU get to tell any woman what to do with her body? You completely contradicted your whole point when you said "I regret that the mothers of Adolf Hitler, Idi Amin, Pol Pot, Jack the Ripper, Gary Ridgeway, Charles Manson, Geoffrey Dahlmer and several others didn't choose to have an abortion. But how could anyone foresee such madness." No one can foresee what ANY child will become, but a woman CAN foresee what her life will be like if she is forced to give birth to an unwanted child. Why would you force women to have children they don't want or can't afford? Do you really want even more kids in the DFCS system? Get down off your high horse, sir, and stop telling other people what they should do.