Great Escape: A Beachfront Perspective

This past weekend I had the luxurious honor of joining my friends on a moms-only beach weekend. The combination of friendship and the calming rhythms of the gulf helped to provide a renewed perspective for my spirit. Here is my meditation one morning:

Looking out into the colorful depths of aquamarine, I feel the ocean’s immense presence. The ocean reminds me of countries across the sea, animals beyond the deep and how all of us on earth are interconnected in so many ways.  

Deep in my deep thoughts I wonder what effects my small part will have in the world. Then I realize, I am perhaps small in the world, but enormous to the most important people in my life- my children. Will I be able to provide happiness and foster confidence? There is so much pressure to parent well.

I spend time evaluating what type of teacher I can be for my children and how I can help bring dreams to light. My concluding hope is that my children view their life like an ocean: A place of vast adventure, with so much to explore- on the surface, deep below, far and wide.  And with that opportunity of adventure, they learn responsibility, perhaps an even harder concept to teach.

I am tired. My insecurities are sitting with me on the beach when I am given a reassuring sign.

Off where the water of aqua turns deeper blue, two small dolphins begin to play. They jump and splash over and over. My friends and I watch, laughing like children. 

I think of my two young playful boys, so much like the dolphins. I am confident they will find a world of opportunity and explore without fear. 

And now, thanks to the calming waves and a few days away to gain perspective, I feel I can confidently guide or lovingly follow them in their adventures. 

Find your escape. Renew your spirit and your parenting approach. It is not selfish, it is essential.

Note: A special thanks to awesome husbands and parents who help to give moms a much needed break.